Monday, June 23, 2008

EMPLOYEE LOVER FRIEND!










How close of a relationship with a co worker is too close?



Some people say when both of you are talking more than you and your significant other. Others say when you know one of you have an apparent attraction. I think co worker relationships as a friend leads to a healthy working environment. Some people co workers are just attractive but vibe on friendship levels. In some cases people are going through a rough relationship and they tend to vent to someone that's not in their situation who's personality and mind set are on the same level. Usually this person is the opposite sex and a emotional attraction is drawn b/c he/she can confine in this person. In addition the person who is giving the advice is also drawn to this person b/c they feel as if they have an obligation to help straighten out that person problems b/c might have been experience the same situation. In return he/she gets comfortable around this person and that's when short pausing eye stares, sexual tension, and worse of all confusing feelings.




This tends to really destroy two relationships the one you're currently involved in and the friendship that escalated to beyond your imagination. That's why its a good rule of thumb that if you are having problems you should address it with your "BOO BABY." Keep your co workers out of your business. Let them know the good times and the funny stuff.

Drown your better half or lesser half with your baggage! B/c a good woman/man is hard to find!

9 comments:

Sexxy Luv said...

1st!!!!!

You are more then right! share the good times and not the bad.

I was once in a situation like this and found myself wanting to talk to this co worker all day, then going home acting out his advice, I almost ruined my relationship!

Egg was in his face when I started showing! lol

Dreamy said...

yes I so understand where ur coming from! I had a situation like that happen to me! Got involved with a male co-worker just by telling my business and him playing the right roll!

Anywho honey thanks for stopping by!

Beautiful baby!

Angie Marie said...

Look @ that baby! 2 cute! & I cu tryna b like me switching the look of the blog lol.

But that situation seems 2 always happen 2 people. Once you get comfortable around them, sexual tension seems 2 rise 4 most. I guess its that feeling that you believe you cant tell your spouse this. Only makes the situation worst, cuz then your business is all around the office!

But I know, the Al Green incident was weird. I just started crying since it was my papa's fav song & the fact that I felt that I needed some sort of sign. It was just a weird day lol

arychtexas said...

@ sexxy luv Its just the most mature thing to do. Beside you suppose to let your signif other know everything and i mean EVERYTHING!

@ dreamy Its so easy to play the "THE NICE I UNDERSTAND GUY!" Whats sucks about him he never tells you " "You need to tell him how you feel." or "Baby girl you need to work it out with him!" or "what are you doing to him to make him feel or act this way?" They boil my blood SMH!

@ blahhh yeah it needed a change and yeah communication with ya spouse is a must. Me and my wife have a good communication line. You know women always think they man cheating even when they know he aint!

Melody.Darlene said...

hahahah! ive definitely taken it there with a co-worker! lol! but we're both grown about the situation... thats the best part!

arychtexas said...

@ melody Back when i struggling to get thru the first semster of college is when i had a E.L.F. it didnt work out though but it was a great expreience b/c i knew what and what not to look for in a woman!

dejanae said...

cute kid


if u gotta hide ish then there's a problem

arychtexas said...

@ dejanae I agreez wit ya completely

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