WHATS IN YOUR CLOSET?

I haven't went shopping in ages due to my house purchase, renovations, and new addition. I'm a freaking Ralph Lauren connoisseur thanks to ThaRula and my boy Cowans. I remember when myself, my wife, and ThaRula hit the mall with the sole purpose to turn heads in our new ish! Spending from 500 to 1000 dollars at a time we adopted my motto "SEE IT WANT IT BUY IT OWN IT!" It was influential in a sense b/c my boy JIOP didn't believe in buying expensive pieces but when he seen the effects he quickly jumped on board. With the birth of my latest angel I haven't been able to live up to my SHOPPERS CREED. What I hate about shopping now is that I have to shop consciously. I mean my freedom to splurge is what kept me sane when I walked in the mall. Saturday I went into that building expecting the harsh reality that I'm out of season/style! Now I try to stay far away from the fashion world b/c I'm broke in a sense. Me and my wife did a budget and we only had 500 dollars to spend TOGETHER! A shirt is 100 damn dollars what the hell imma do with 250 dollars? Now don't get me wrong a nigga love MARSHALLS and Outlet malls. On the contrary I will never buy that CHINA SHOP ISH! So I'm sad but I guess I will wait and save till I have enough to buy myself back to materialistic happiness!


Blog of the day ThaRula

Bored? GET DRUNK AND GO TO A KARAOKE BAR

Song of the Day Like a Virgin Madonna

RiCh KeTcHuP THEN ADD another BRANCH to the FAMILY TREE

Sept. 14th it rained on earth but I witnessed tears of love. You say tears from who I say from God b/c he sent another angel to be in my arms. Thank you God for a peaceful birth and healthy ANGEL NAMED KAYLIN!

A man was walking down the hall with a mobile IV machine hooked up to him. As we approached each other I smiled and said "Good Morning sir how are you doing?" His glittery face turned into an "WTH are you thinking face" as we crossed paths. That was the worse set of words I could've chosen at the time! Of course he was in pain and feeling like ish. This man had a million fluid/medicine bags hooked up to him. Not to mention he was rocking a hospital dress that shows your butt cheeks.

I gave one of my babies to animal control! Yep man my kitty heaven that I adopted she couldn't stop being aggressive. She scratched the hell out of my family and 4 weeks of her acting like EDWARD SCISSOR HANDS she had 2 go. I had to call the people on her. O what a sad time man but I know somebody without kids will be able to give her a better home.

Blog of the day http://behindthescenesofthings.blogspot.com/

Song of the day "FAST CAR" THE DREAM

Something you need to read www.barackobama.com/issues

RICH GENESIS A.D. PT V

SIDE NOTE- Baby is on the way probably this weekend! Picked up a new position at the job! Bad thing is my hours were extended so i have 12 to 15 hr days! So less blogger time and i tryed to hit as many of you guys up but its been crazy! back to the post..........


With the absence of a "presence less father" I had to learn sports on my own! I picked up basketball and I was no Lebron James but I wasn't Shawn Bradely either! With all the perks of living in this nice suburban area we had internal conflict brewing. My aunt was a freaking room rat. She basically lived out of her room and never came out. She would cuss you out if you even peeked in her personal prison! Now don't get me wrong nice lady but she had a "MOMMY DEAREST" side. Plus she was frugal and I can't stand a cheap skate! I guess with her feeling like her home wasn't really her home and financial drama with my mom Operation Better Life turned bitter fast! Summer 1999 we got evicted b/c my aunt didn't want to pay her share. So we moved to the worst part of North Dallas. At this time "Bangin in Little Rock wasn't hot"! So eventually gangs turned into "HOODS." Man going to the wrong hood was the invisible "bear trap!" Negros came out of no where like they smelled a unfamiliar face in they hood! So I hope you was as fast as MICHEAL JOHNSON cause them boys was chasing you trying to jump you and take your J'S! People were getting there doors kicked in, pistol whippin your mother, and shooting at you in broad day light! With all this extra curricular b/s in my life I some how some way blocked the negative out and kept it positive! The positive was.......I was freakin alive and someway I got to stay alive to protect my brothers and sister!

BLOG OF THE DAY http://hotfishgrease.blogspot.com/

SONG OF THE DAY "JUKE" A~RYCH

SOMETHING I JUST LEARNED ABOUT....Purgatory

NEWS BREAK!

SORRY! BUT I HAD TO CUT MY CURRENT BROADCAST! with a brief interruption. Yep that's me talking to that "young strapping youth" about slavery. Well as you can see I was at the barbershop giving that youngin a lesson. Well previously me and my barber got into a debate about nationality. I asked him if a white man came to him and said he was African would you believe him? He said NO and insisted that no white person could be African. So I said what if he said that his parents grandfather moved there and his father was born there and he was born there will he be African. He said no bc Africans aren't white! As i argued with these people, they were "unknowingly" confusing ethnicity with nationality. So I explained the difference and these mothasuckas still was arguing. Another guy said white people don't have a spirit! Wth? He also said that he teach white people how to talk to him! lol at that ish. What do yall think?

BLOG OF THE DAY http://titi2kayt972.blogspot.com/

SONG OF THE DAY "YYZ" BY RUSH

WORD OF THE DAY EQUALITY

RICH GENESIS A.D. PT IV "HE'S BACK"

B4 I START I WILL LIKE TO SEND A SPECIAL PRAYER OUT TO CARINA TUFU. SHE IS ABOUT 19 AND SHE IS LOSING HER EYE SIGHT AND THE DOCS DONT KNOW WHY. PLEASE PRAY FOR HER AND HER FAMILY......


With all the stress of 4 extra personalities in her apt she "Literally" had an heart attack! So something had to change and change came fast. They came up with staying under one roof until they all built a financial foundation to make it on there own . SUMMER 1997 THE BIG PLAN CAME INTO EFFECT! We all moved under one roof into a 2000 plus sq. ft. 4 bedroom 3 1/2 bath house great neighborhood. Now due to a great economy they were able to land some "big bucks jobs!" Thank god for Bill Clinton *claps* BUT a bigger surprise was on the way. Lyman Richardson drove his red mustang back into our life. I didn't want this man back in my life I knew his capability. He couldn't hurt me anymore is what I thought. First night was cool I miss yall yada yada. Next day he was back 2 his same ole self! We were at this party and "the guys" pulled out some weed or whatever. Instead of him saying, "Man chill out I got my kids." He kicked us out at 11 at night so they can smoke. I was so threw with this mothasucka but my brother Chris wanted his FATHER in his life. Truthfully I didn't need a father at this point but my bros are my life! Next weekend he had us again and he had to out do his last "antic." We where watching the NBA Finals at these people house and my dad left. I don't know where the hell he went! He left us at these people house till 1 am. I didn't know these people from "Jack and Jill." Plus we were sitting outside waiting on this dude. I really wanted him out of my life! God answered my prayers b/c not even a week later he beat feet AGAIN.


BLOG OF THE DAY http://theskinnygenes.blogspot.com/2008/08/i-guess-nice-people-still-exist.html

SONG OF THE DAY "SUPER SEXY" CHARLIE WILSON FT TPAIN

MOOD FOR THE DAY REJOICED

Rich Genesis A.D. PT. III

A new dilemma was brewing with one of her "seeds". My brother wasn't
feeling the love from nobody. He was sooooo bad for no reason we thought
he was crazy. One day I was looking for him for something. I couldn't find him at all people. I looked in closets, outside, and not to mention I was screaming his name like I lost Lassie. Something said "Look under the bed dummy." I bent down and seen a plastic bag wrapped around his face. He was really trying to kill himself. I pulled him out from under that bed, poked a whole in the plastic and proceeded to kickin his azz! While tears streamed down my face I grabbed him and hugged him like I haven't seen him in years! As I held him I muttered, "I love you!". He apologized and didn't say why he tried to kick the bucket. I didn't understand depression but I understood life. To me my brother & sisters was my "life". I didn't have a relationship with God. To be real at this time didn't "fully" understand who he was. Matter of fact I didn't even fully know my mother and father! Too young to truly grasp his sickness I just knew he wanted attention. He was dealing with something that I couldn't figure out and till this day I still don't know what triggered him. Looking at the pain he caused to me that must have sparked a light in him mentally. 1996 mom came back for good and well things didn't get any better. My gpops and my step gma broke up and she let us get the house since mom agreed to pay the notes. About 7 months later financial woes lead to the "repossession" of our baby blue mini van and we got evicted from the house. My life did a complete "180" again. I didn't cry I just was ready to seek shelter b/c being homeless is the "PITS". We moved in with my aunt and 4 kids in her 2 bedroom apt. Mind you it was my mom, the 3 boys, plus my aunt kids. So bye bye bed and hello floor! It became my best friend and efficient room was a mirage.......

BLOG OF THE DAY http://chile-please.blogspot.com/2008/08/my-services-are-no-longer-free.html

SONG OF THE DAY "SEPERATED" JOURNEY

MOVIE OF THE DAY- GIA/ MOMMY DEAREST

RICH GENESIS A.D. PT II

she was trying. I was just being a nuisance for no reason. From rolling up "REAL" grass with newspaper and smoking it like a blunt. To fighting and stealing bikes/etc. Belinda Carter was a victim of repercussions. Having her 1st child at 16 then having 3 more 4 yrs later back to back. Lets be honest her financial foundation was a pigment of her imagination. By early 1994 my mom couldn't make "100 buck rent" plus we got robbed for everything. These bastards took my life the "Nintendo and big screen." You know back then a big screen was at least 100 lbs so I know people "seen and heard" them mothasuckas. But that's the inconvenience of the hood "No Neighborhood Watch!" Well time went on and mom got the eviction notice but she didn't let us know. I came home and people were throwing all our stuff in the streets. That's right we got evicted! Mom packed the 3 boys up and moved us to DALLAS TX with my grandfather. Before we left she gave us the "yall need a better life spill". In my eyes back then mom just dropped us off there and went else where. I was a child how was I suppose to comprehend my mom dropping us off and kicking rocks. Dec 1994 Ervin Eugene Carter 3rd was born and Arthur, Chris, and Ladarius were experiencing a new life...

1995 I officially met White People yall! In Memphis it was only one white boy in my class and he wore the same outfit everyday. A Tasmanian devil shirt with dirty shorts and unintentional off white no name shoes. I remember them calling "THE PEOPLE" on his parents. These white kids weren't dirty and they had nice toys! At last I was a kid. I went places, trick or treated, and I even fished! We were finally settled in Texas and my life did a total "180". No violence, new clothes, zero financial worries, and stability. Dec 25 was just that "DEC 25TH". But now it was actually a holiday people. We celebrated my 1st "big" Christmas and mom was there. I got all the new ish Super Nintendo and all! Awww man nothing could erase the joy from me. Couple months later.....

Rich Genesis A.D. PT. I

1985 Rich was "finally" born in Shelby County Hospital in Memphis, TN. First son but 2nd of 6 kids in ALL! Lyman Richardson wanted me to be named after his father plus Belinda Johnson wanted me to be named "Arthur" after the "KING". After little deliberation Arthur Lyman Richardson was created. Before she had me my mom said she had a couple abortions so i was destine! My father was on drugs, a even worse Alchy, and he was a Ike Turner if you catch my drift. Fed up with his antics my mom split couple years after the birth of her 4th child. 1991 My mom met Ervin Carter in the process and her 5th child Charde' was born. We got a house in Frazier and Ervin was a good guy but he also had "baggage". He was a semi Alchy and Playa. He loved us I guess and he ended up getting kicked out b/c his immaturity! I remember one time my mom was Muhammad Ali'n his azz and I bust him up side the head with a "see-through" telephone. Yeah i was young and bout it. My mom couldn't afford the house payments so off we went to the PJS....
1993 FIRST TASTE OF THE PROJECTS. Walter Simmons Projects off Lamar in Memphis Tenn. 2nd day after moving in this cat tries my brother up. Me being me beat the hell out of him. Poor as hell and mom "working all day sleeping all night" so my big sis practically raised us. But she was "young minded" and how in the hell was she going to "properly" raise me. We fought every day fist to cuffs type ish. One of her friends tried to hit my brother so I pushed her down a flight of stairs. Her boyfriend used to always beat us up man. I wanted to pumble that mouthasucka but he was like 5'6 I was like 4'6. Couple months later I got jumped in my very first gang. 8 months later got stomped out by rival gang members. Later that year my next door neighbor "molested me". She was "BIG" and 16 so I'm guessing same thing happened to her. She lured me in and made me do things to her a 8 yr old just ain't suppose to know or do. When she was about to make me "do the do" I got up and ran like Antwan Fisher.....My mother couldn't tell you half the bad ish i did b/c she wasn't there but......

BLOG OF THE DAY http://thedreamyones.blogspot.com/2008/08/daydreaming.html

SONG OF THE DAY "MAKE IT WORK" NE-YO

WORD OF THE DAY SNITCH

Random...SOS.....

On a lighter post my baby is due next month! But here is the problem she is a "JANE DOE!" So if you have any suggestions for a name please leave it in the comment box. Please think of K names! So far we like....
1.Ka'mya (I like)
2.Kaylin (wife like)
3.Harmonee (we like)
4.I like December or Winter (I LOVE SHE HATES)

Well I graduated this Tech School and I didn't even tell you all I was in school! I'm just building up my resume for 2013!

Joshua won "SO THINK YOU CAN DANCE" I was so happy that TV has a show where people can actually win w/o cheating or it being unrealistic! Plus its a legitimate way out for these guys! He was poor with no training but his heart and faith made him "A" champion! PLUS I WANTED HIM 2 WIN!

RIP BERNIE!! I HOPE YOUR STAY IN HEAVEN IS SWELL....

Blog of the day... http://therevealedoasis.blogspot.com/2008/08/searching-for-diamonds-value-of-your.html <<<< real talk!

Song of the day... "Something In My Heart" by Michel'e

Word of the day... Determination!

In Relation To My Title....

The name of this Blog is Time To Keep it Real for a reason and I'm bout to keep it real as i can bare with me...

Lyman Richardson my father of 23 yrs I haven't seen you in 10 years. You showed me how to hit a woman. You showed me how to not raise my kids. Maybe it was the child support b/c you couldn't even show up for my Pre-k graduation. Daddy do you want to know something? When i got that back pay child support check in the mail i gave it all to mom b/c i wanted your time not your money. Driving drunk while all 3 of your sons in the car. I love you Lyman for showing me how not to keep a promise. How to put the blame on my baby mother if the kids ask why I'm not around. Thank you dad for leaving me and your 2 sons outside at 11 at night to do drugs. Thank you dad for lying to me over and over. Thank you dad for saying that i was your pride and joy ! Thank you dad for calling me when you found out that i was married with a child but I haven't heard from you since. Cuss words couldn't describe you. I tried to find a synonym that fit you but you are more than one word. After all this i forgave you whole heartily and i will never hold a grudge. But you're not a "FATHER" AND THANK YOU FOR SHOWING ME WHAT "NOT" TO DO AS ONE...

Change of Heart....

Have you ever judge somebody by stuff your friends and others say about them? Have you ever disliked somebody bc of their beliefs and actions but not their heart? Here is a story about HALE. He was perceived as a cheater, racist, and liar! I mean I didn't to much care for this dude. He would always do crazy and childish stuff. Ironically while I was on watch he was right up there with me just smoking a cig. I can't recall how the convo started but we ended up singing Kurt Franklin song "LEAN ON ME" . He knew so much about the bible and he told me his life story. His father is a sub par racist hailing from something small town MISSISSIPPI. Well hale wife is black. His father disowned him b/c he had got her pregnant and they married. His mother total opposite. She nourished HALE in the word of GOD. I was shocked by the other side of him. So as we were talking he says this story....

A man went to a store that sells crosses bc his was too heavy to bear. He entered the store and left his cross by the entrance. He walked down every aisle picking up crosses checking the weight of them and he was unsatisfied. Just when he was about to leave he seen a little cross by the door. With excitement he said SIR, I want that cross! The store clerk told him "That was your cross you brought in the store and sat by the door"

The Thought In The Back Of Your Mind...

At work we were having a discussion and this guy brought up, " Are they
going to assassinate OBAMA b/c of his influence power or his race?" Has America "REALLY" accepted him?" I brought up how MLK had more
influence than the President! He not only rallied BLK PEOPLE but even
Caucasians and other races! I believe he died b/c of his popularity,
beliefs, influential speeches and acts not so much his race. So the
question was brought up. "Will Obama get assassinated?" I believe that is a
thought in all of our sub conscious. He is the new hope card and a wide
range of people follow him. So is he next to get knocked off or will
America accept this individual for who he is?

Cat In Da HAT....Tweekend Rap Up....

The letter was a success! It was emailed to every member via my pastor. 2 members came up 2 me and express how they felt. Now all that weight is lifted off me now! whew!My boy Jiop took his x beezy back so no more Guitar Hero 3! I love that game but them demons and ish on there is weird....

I adopted a cat you guyz!

My wife got a email stating that a woman had 5 abandon kittens 4 girls and 1 boy. They all were around 5 weeks old and one was missing a paw! I wanted the one missing a paw but I kind of didn't b/c I didn't know if it would've survived.. So when we got there the boy cat and the missing paw was gone! But we seen one that had our demeanor and curiosity! Plus she was so beautiful. She is a Calico and her name is HEAVEN. We wanted to get both but we didn't just in case another family wanted one...Sat we it a church yard sale got the cat a scratch toy and VA Beach Strip to kill some time to see "Batman" in IMAX

Low and behold this line!

As you know black people hate long lines and we were 45 mins early for the movie! I truly believe white people love lines as you can see they sitting down playing cards and ish! I was heated! Got me in this line sitting down Indian style! I should've knew it was a line b/c white people were outside literally fighting for parking. I wish my SK3 slide had video. :sigh: The movie was hot! Heath did his job trying to convince people that he ain't crazy b/c all people go crazy under pressure! Dat man was CRAZY!

O finally I hit a baby shower.

It was for two single moms that are currently in the Navy. They had the best "looking" baby shower I ever been to in the terms of "gifts". Yall should know by now I'M on here checking out all yall blogs man. I think I'm a bigger fan than a writer! I just love to see peoples perspective of life and how they face what they got in front of them. I just love expression! B4 I jet check out operation worship.com. It's a site set up to help send BIBLES to active duty military overseas.....

DRY WASH

This past SAT was our *church car wash* Before we started I said a prayer and a car pulled up as soon as I said AMEN! I was like man this day is going to be a good one! Well it went downhill...Nobody from my church showed up and we only washed one car! Now mind you we've been advertising this thing every Sunday since at least JUNE 24TH!

"Church *Car Wash* JULY 19 everybody come and bring supplies and it'll be from 1130am till 1pm."

We made 20 dollars I believe 2 bucks from the first car and we put 18 in there. Around 1245pm a couple came up to me and said they were struggling and need help so I offered that they come to church the next morning and we will help them out. O I apologize one person did but she came at the end and she wasn't going to help she just wanted to drop a water hose off! WTHECK? My wife is 8 months pregnant and she was out there and you telling me nobody came to help! My church is about 30 members strong and its basically old people but the church is financially and spiritually wheeling down hill and they know this! So little me was livid and my wife wanted to leave the church for good! So I decided to write the church a letter now this letter I will not disclose to you guys b/c that's just messy but it was real! I read to my wife, pastor, and another member and they eyeballs popped out their sockets! It wasn't profane and my pastor wasn't exempt! I let him have a little bit to b/c he didn't show up either but he got the time mixed up and he emailed me b/c his cell sucks. So the ending result is my letter is posted in the church bulletin and everyone who comes will see it in their church hand out on Sunday! VICTORY! HOPEFULLY MY MESSAGE WILL WAKE PEOPLE UP!

IN THE MIND OF THE CHEATER!

This is PART II to my 3 part series "SITUATION." This begins at the ending of part one"In The Mind Of The Victim" so read up if ya need too!"

Leave! GET OUT!" My heart drops so hard but I can't budge! If I leave I will never get to tell her my side! So I said, "But baby I can explain!" She screamed, "Explain what? Explain how you can be so selfish to destroy our family and betray my trust! I put my all in you MY ALL! You don't love me!" The tension in the room was unexplainable. It felt like Russian Rulet and the barrel of the gun was pointed at me. How can I be so stupid she never did nothing wrong. Selfishly to say I just wanted to be in the game but I didn't think this would destroy my family. So in a broken reassuring voice I said, "Baby I know i made a mistake. I wanted to tell you so bad. I just couldn't find the words or the right time. Do you think I wanted to see you hurt? It was a one time thing baby you got to believe me?" With tears running down my face in shame and disbelief all I want is my baby back! The 1000 yard stare she had was breaking my soul! It's like she's looking right through me as if I was transparent. Water filled her eyes as she softly said, "Why are you crying?"I replied, "B/c I'm hurting just like you!" She walks towards me and I open my arms ready to embrace the love of my life. But Hells fury leaped into her eyes! The look of disgust mirrored her facial expression! She wretched back and SMACK THE HELL OUT OF ME! Not one note trembled as she yelled, "Are you stupid? Can you hear your self? YOU CHEATED ON ME!"

DA BUTCHER.....

My barber name is Ho-tep. (The one rocking the MOTHER LAND SHIRT lol) He is a monster but he can't do every hair style good. My brother tried to sabotage this blog by saying, "You better not put this on blogger!" I calmly replied, "Naw I'm sending these pics to momma." My bro name is Ervin and he is 14 loaded with tons of personality! He wanted a mohawk like they do in Dallas. I told this knuckle head that nobody rocks that here but he insisted in opening his mouth and not heeding to my advice of getting an even all around wit a taper. So what did he get? He got a MR T! Lol...whew....bald on the sidez P. Diddy RUNS THE CITY on the top!

Lol... I bet he'll listen next time! Now they got him looking like GRACE JONES from CONAN! But its all good b/c my brother liked it and I guess that's all that matters....

MARS......

Have you ever believed that there was other life forms out there? OK I know you like wtheck? This guy said, "I can't really say if I believe that everything in the bible is accurate. I also don't understand why they didn't tell us more about Jesus personal life from yr to yr." I told him, "The bible is a summary of events in the past and whats to come. It also gives you the key to deliverance and all your answers to your questions you'll have to seek and you will find maybe not this life but surely the next! So he said "Do you believe in aliens?" I replied, "I don't know?" Then I asked, "If we were to land on mars and aliens believed in Jesus would you then believe in the whole bible?" He said, "Yes I would whole heartily believe!" I'm like wtheck? "So you have to see an alien reading and believing in the bible for you to believe?" He said, "Yea because they are not of this world and it would be conformation that the bible is true!" Somebody said in the background, "That's why we have "faith!" So would an alien change your mind?

YOU CHOOSE!

My wife best friend daughter is bad, out of control, and I witness this first hand! She is 2 1/2 and she hits her mom, screams if she doesn't get her way, she runs off and plays hide go seek in the mall and you hardly can find her, most of all she doesn't mind her mom! But there is a but she listens to me. WTHello? Her baby Daddy and her aren't together anymore. They had an apt but they moved back in with the parents after the split. But he works the night shift and sleeps in the day and when he is off he takes care of her. He makes sure she eats right and disciplines her but he's barely around b/c of "work." Her mom isn't what we call a disciplinarian but she does try calm her down. Her only fault is that she gives her anything she wants to shut her up! Now don't get it twisted she doesn't neglect her child! She is a loving mom and she works like a dog. Its just hard for her b/c its just her. Its kind of sad b/c her maternal instincts aren't as good as other single young mothers ya know in my opinion. So who fault is it for the behavior of the child? The "workaholic" father? Premature mother? Or the undermining child? You choose...but I blame the parents! They made this child and no matter how under prepared the mother and the fathers work load shouldn't prevent them from raising this child right. The father should step up and do her share b/c that's his child! He should be obligated in his heart and soul to cut back "working" to take care of his child! She should organize and prioritize to make a better balance life for them. For example eating times for her, bath time, and night time this should be a routine...

MY 4TH RECAP!

Have you ever just sat there and listen to a song and start dancing in your head? Not regular lean w/ it rock w/ it... I'm talking bout Chris Brown ~N~ Ciara! Janet in her prime 100% Ginuwine~N~ Usher swinging the chain around his neck while bustin down chicks and cheating on Chile Dancin! Sigh....THANKS FOR ALL THE LOVE AND COMMENTS TO MY POSTS! IF YOU ARE A AVID READER I ADDED YOU 2 DA BLOG ROLL!

To the subject at hand! While most of yall were boozin and clubin on this "Forth of July Weekend" I was nauseated and had a incredible hulk headache. I seen "HANCOCK" and I liked it for the 1st black zero cartoon history super hero! O I did hit this spot called ZAZIOS hmmm! Great food, nice ambiance, and great price! But this ain't about me. Happy 50 anni to my step g-parents....that's just a blessing. Statistics show most marriages don't last 3 yrs...but the strength is in numbers in this case....

COMFORT ZONE!

I can honestly say I never had a legit "comfort zone." Every time I find one it seems that GOD yanks me out of it! Which I'm not mad at b/c he showed me why. A lil tidbit about me.... See I was extremely poor growing up! I had slept on the floor since I was 11 till about 19. Don't be sad I wasn't! I didn't care as long as it wasn't the streets! My mom kept food in the frig but she wasn't always around b/c she worked so hard. When I was around 10 she left for 2 yrs to truck drive and at 14 she left again. Her nickname is momma "BEAT FEET!" But that's another post. I lived in I say 10 different Apts. and 3 different houses in a 10 yr span! No I wasn't adopted I just jumped from family member to family member.Surprisingly I stayed in the same neighborhood in high but that all changed when I graduated lol. Each time ya know I learned something different about self and life. So one day it dawned on me that my comfort zone is with God. Not a house, friend, hobby, or anything I've ever done or had! He really showed me how I needed him. When we got evicted I called his name for shelter and when we were broke I called him for financial stability. He answered and delivered and gave me reassurance to trust him. So beware b/c God hates comfort zones unless its with him...........

IN THE MIND OF THE VICTIM....

Have you ever been cheated on? Lets re-live those feelings. Pick up their cell notice a unfamiliar name but a re-accruing number or notice a change in your partners emotions,routine, and sex drive. You ignore it as a phase or maybe its a dry spot in your relationship. Arguments don't get resolved plus your partners attention to you is decreasing. WTH? You ask that question that make your stomach cringe and your heart race. "Are you seeing someone else?" Now your anxious for a reply. Hoping for a, "Baby naw why would you say that?" Your partner steps back your heart drops a tear crawl down your face as you look at someone you thought you knew. Their response doesn't matter b/c your feeling is true unless...unless they say, "No I will never do that to you I know we been in a dry spot baby but I love you!" That response would've made you love them more than anything but that's not the case...."Baby I'm sorry." is uttered so softly. You can't think, swallow, nor breathe! All you see is memories rewinding.... flashing....damn such good times. All you can say is, "Leave just leave!" But you so wanna say, "Stay and Why Why Why?! What have I done?!" But your only strong enough to scream, "GET OUT!".......

A MILLI BASH IN K-ZOO MICHIGAN!

Today while on my 10 day vacation in K-ZOO we had a good discussion! Me being me I like to stir things up! So me being the only black guy surround by my in laws and they friends. I bring up the blog site "stuff white people like"....Now I told my self earlier that this might get me banned from the house but I got to be me and say what I feel! Man did it back fire! They said, "The website generalized and made them feel as if the people who wrote it are biaest." One said, "Who's to say all white people like those things?" I said, "Well it not to be taken literal and the white people who do like it laugh!" To change the mood I told them about the blogspot and they laughed at me. I started to feel like I'm from mars b/c how they don't know about blogs?



So next day we got ready for this party. Mark Deforest people is the inventor of the pop up! This guy is stupid rich as you can see by the pictures! His house sit on 40 acres of land with a 5 acre man made lake, his own woods, his mansion, and a car garage house!<<<(wtheck?)




We were invited b/c my wife father does his electrical work. People brought babysitters to the party so they could get drunk b/c the liquor was free. In his car house he had James Bond Edition BMW Coupe, GT500, 2008 Z06 Corvette, and V12 Bi-Turbo AMG Series S65 is just a few cars this man had! Beautiful home well laid out might I add. My daughter acted so spoiled I mean she never throws fits and my wife gave her the business! it was kind of funny but it was only a lil smack on the thigh! He wouldn't let anyone in his home I respect that and people steal! He had circus, carnival game stands, endless food and drinks, outdoor arcade, and a comedy central comedian! Best fire works display I ever seen! They say rich people throw the best parties and he did just that!

A PIECE OF HEAVEN FOR LITTLE OL ME!

Oct 25 2006 wasn't relevant till you showed up. 9 months before that I didn't even know you existed but you knew me. How ironic you seen my ways from heaven and probably asked GOD to come into my life earlier but he said in due time child...in due time. When you came here you made an immediate impact. You change me and you already knew it. Even when I wasn't meshing with my better half the look on your angelic face erased all my anger. Kanye said "He lost the only girl who knew him best." I think I was blessed with the only girl who change me for the best without saying a word!


I love you and this is written for you. I will thank God everyday for giving one of his most beautiful angels to be in my mitts. Everyday I love you KAYLA and daddy will always be there!

EMPLOYEE LOVER FRIEND!

How close of a relationship with a co worker is too close?



Some people say when both of you are talking more than you and your significant other. Others say when you know one of you have an apparent attraction. I think co worker relationships as a friend leads to a healthy working environment. Some people co workers are just attractive but vibe on friendship levels. In some cases people are going through a rough relationship and they tend to vent to someone that's not in their situation who's personality and mind set are on the same level. Usually this person is the opposite sex and a emotional attraction is drawn b/c he/she can confine in this person. In addition the person who is giving the advice is also drawn to this person b/c they feel as if they have an obligation to help straighten out that person problems b/c might have been experience the same situation. In return he/she gets comfortable around this person and that's when short pausing eye stares, sexual tension, and worse of all confusing feelings.




This tends to really destroy two relationships the one you're currently involved in and the friendship that escalated to beyond your imagination. That's why its a good rule of thumb that if you are having problems you should address it with your "BOO BABY." Keep your co workers out of your business. Let them know the good times and the funny stuff.

Drown your better half or lesser half with your baggage! B/c a good woman/man is hard to find!

LLOYD LLOYD LLOYD!!!!!

2 days ago my command had a little bbq at this church 15 minutes from my house. As I got ready I ripped a hole in my favorite Ralph Lauren jeans!

I was 2 mad man! (the hole is on both sides too SMH) So I threw on some different RLs and put on that yellow big pony RL and was on my way. So I step out with my fit and my Marc Jacob goggles that I borrowed from the wife cuz they unisex and I needed some brown tinted shades and I'm looking like I dressed 2 hard for the occasion.

So My boy JOIP hits the scene (the guy to the far right giving you the thumbs up is JOIP and the guy to your far left is LLOYD now the guy in the middle he is (L2K "LYIN 2 KICK IT")

Back to the story. Now JOIP stirs up some lies for these female co workers. One girl ask "Are you by yourself?" and he says "No the girl I'm with is over there talking to the Command Master Chief and her daughter is right next to him." Sure enough it was a woman and a child talking with the CMC but they didn't know it wasn't JOIPs company so they believed it and it was classic JOIP spinning a Web Of Lies. A lil while after we spotted LLoyd aka "MR UP2NOGOOOD"and gave him a classic roasting bc he had on that buy one get one free jewelry!

NOW LLOYD EVERYBODY IS A SPECIAL CHARACTER! HE DOES THINGS JUST TO DO THEM! FOR EXAMPLE THAT CHAIN AND FAKE ROLEX HE ROCKS HE USES IT TO HIT THE CLUB WITH TO STUNT ON THESE FEMALES SO IT SEEMS LIKE HE'S A DRUG DEALER OR ESTABLISHED! WHY HE DO LLOYD DO THIS? NO ONE KNOWS BUT LLOYD! IN ALL ACTUALITY HE IS A NICE GUY WITH A BIG HEART! HE JUST DOES THINGS JUST TO DO THEM!

BACK TO THE STORY.....Then we snuck out the side doors b/c we weren't staying for the meeting and we took off in the RAV (ITS THE WORK CAR and i aint driving that gas guzzlin EXT EXPLO!). So we ended up going to tropical smoothie so JOIP could get a drink and This chick was walking side by side with this guy on a bike and the whole time he was trying to holla at her and we heard a part of their convo and she said to him "You aint 17." So I hyped LLoyd up and told him he couldn't get her and we whipped the RAV around and pulled up next to her and the wackest line spewed out of his mouth...." I aint 17 either!" she said " ooooo ok and speed up her pace!"

we laughed so hard......

3 Man Carnival

Today I went to the carnival and its was windy like the Chi and people was no where to be found like da Wild Wild West or Kanye at his last venue! These people wouldn't even let my daughter on a kiddy ride talking bout she ain't 36 inches and she was 32 inches! I'm like "YOU LENT LICKER!" this ride is empty and only thing in them seats is dust and butt stains! Anyways my lil bro is in town and he enjoyed himself . As far as the prize games this man let me and the wife play a buy one get one free game and we still lost so i guess it didnt pay off. Then thunderstorms came about and we beat feet and headed to my boy Griff house for soul food and endless jokes! thks griff fa them wingz hmm!!!!